Help - my colleague is toxic/manipulative and I'm feeling harassed...?

me personally - i hate when people promise to send me something and they do not do it right away. so as a result i always answer emails or send papers not to make others wait. that's why by the way i am very highlty praised at my work place - i am known as a person who does everything fast and perfect. so maybe u could learn something from it. but back to your question - if u were eating breakfast u should have told her "now i am eating breakfast, then i need to do some urgent work, after that i immediately email u your papers". this is what NORMAL people would do. but as u told her u were going to email her and never did - that was very disrespectful. of course she is not well in her head either - she should have been just patiently waiting for u to send her stuff, but do not make yourself an innocent angel